Close Freinds , Strong Groupism

If you think it’s always the case that likeminded people make friends with each other then you are wrong. You might think that your friends are your friends because they have a similar mindset as yours. But it doesn’t work that way. You have a good chance as anybody, that you befriend someone who is 60 percent different from you, at least. For Example, you have a friend who would do things which are not correct according to you. No matter how many times you advice them, he would still persist doing them. You won’t like his behavior for sure but at the end of the day you will be caring for him.

Same is the case of groupies.  The members of the group don’t necessary find similarities in one another but things which interest them. It can be possible for a group to exist where each member’s mindsets are quite different from one another. Creation of groups is natural.  The first day of your college you make a friend then you both make some new friends and finally you all make a group. Now it’s not necessary that your group will remain the same till the end your end of the college days. Some differences and clashes of opinions are meant to happen. Some will leave your group and some new might join you. But it should be our best interest to sort out those differences when they arise.

We love our friends and we love our groups. Some of us have large of group of friends while some find joy in smaller ones. But no matter how many close friends we have, we will find issues in relationship. Negativity in form differences, jealousy might sweep in and we will have problems being friends. But it should be yours job to sort out those issues. It’s should be you who should be apologetic regardless who was at fault.It’s your job to keep your relationship healthy.

Friends are gifts of life so don’t let your ego to come in between you and them. After all it’s not about having close friends; it’s about keeping your friends close.